For the LEGO enthusiast(s) in your house
Now that you are a parent, your love of LEGO has been rekindled. You watch your kids play with the little plastic bricks, you marvel at their creations, you curse them each time you step on one with bare feet. When you were a kid, you probably wondered where they came from and had questions, but did anyone answer you? Did they even know? LEGO’s just…were. Now that you are a grownup, The Cult of LEGO by John Baichtal and Joe Meno (hardcover, $39.95) will delight you and your kids alike with trivia and information about the toy. It’s a coffee-table book that explains how they were invented and some of the outrageous things people do with them. But if you want to keep it as a nice coffee-table book, you might want to keep it out of the reach of children. They are bound to read it a little bit too enthusiastically, if you know what I mean.
A sobering read
Ben Behind His Voices (hardcover, $26.95) is a stirring memoir by Randye Kaye, who was a radio personality in Connecticut when her oldest child started showing symptoms of paranoid schizophrenia as he entered his teens. Her story is one of maternal sacrifice and heartbreak, and a redefinition of her own family. I was afraid of this book. As a mother, I knew it would tear my heart out. But I am a glutton for punishment, so of course I read it cover to cover. The book is well-written and Kaye communicates her pain and frustration very effectively. When you read something like this you think maybe it will help you recognize warning signs and therefore avoid the same problems with your own children. But with something as complex as schizophrenia and the various challenges the family encountered as Ben grew up, Kaye provides something I suspect is even more valuable to other people dealing with the same thing: hope.
New Year’s clutter clean-up
I have been a big fan of Peter Walsh since I saw him on Oprah helping the hoarder from Long Island whose house was so full of stuff that her grown children and her grandchildren never visited anymore. I watched him coach her through a complete turnaround of her home environment and hopefully her whole life. His latest book Lighten Up: Love What You Have, Have What You Need, Be Happier With Less (hardcover, trade paperback, digital) is less of a practical guide to removing clutter from your life and more of an emphasis on the psychological reasons that one accumulates too much stuff. Walsh urges you to examine all aspects of your life: emotional, financial, relationships, work life – and basically clean out the clutter from all of those areas. I found the worksheets included a little bit too simplistic – they did not inspire me to get a pencil and do the actual work. But then again, my life is perfect, so why bother? This would be a great gift for that friend or relative who always has so much drama about money and housework going on.
For kids
Sarah Sue Smith (paperback, $22.49): In this first of a planned series of Crooked Wharf Adventures, an orange-haired octopus named Sarah Sue Smith makes meals for her undersea friends. I give this book the award for Most Comprehensive Use of Fonts Found in Microsoft Word, because every page uses a different one. Your kids won’t care, however. The story is engaging and the artwork is bright and cheerful. Plus, they learn stuff about math without even realizing it. The book was written by Tara Rebal and designed by Frank Sercia, two former co-workers of my Aunt Kathy. Kudos to them for doing what they really wanted to do when they grew up.
I received all of the above books as review copies or gifts. All opinions are my own. Obviously.
“Ben Behind his Voices” will also help us understand what other moms and families with schizophrenia are going through. I never knew what the disease was until I read this book. Thank you for bringing the topic to light.